Would You Have Lousy Sex or No Sex

For those who knew me personally, there is nothing wrong with my sex life, thank you very much.

Now, this is a question i was thinking when plotting my first short story for a few decades. Yes, Purple Leaves will have his first short story posted here soon..Yay!!!!

ok back to the question. Now let's say you got a husband or wife or a live in partner, and you had been horny for long, and the other one either feigned ignorance or don't bother deiced not to care. And when you try to ask for it through words or action, you got some very lousy sex. 

So will you rather have it or will you not?

For me, well, i rather not having it. what's the point of having sex if it is not enjoyable? Rather than facing the disappointment, why not go get a better one. Opps i felt some holier than thou persons throwing eggs at me for preaching infidelity, but go to hell, good girls go to heaven but bad girls go everywhere!!!!

but i am not preaching you to screw behind your wife/husband/partner's back. just if one day, if your are lucky, you managed to break free, maybe you can have sex without those painful memories, then it is more fair to the one you may be fucking later. 

maybe you can share your opinion as to this regard here?

Whose Girls are the Hottest?

Before i continue, i must make a few disclaimer;

1) I do appreciate beauty, whether man-made or natural-made, which obviously including women.

2) This post is by no mean a degradation of women into sexual objects, but sex, by all means, is a beauty of human natural features. Yes i do view sex as something more than physical. It is something quite spiritual, and no, this post is not really about sex either.

3) Nope, i am not shooting our Singaporean friends nor Malaysian friends nor any other countries hereafter mentioned.

4) I think me too, am hot, when i wanted to =p ok i know, totally unrelated and untrue. Hey give me a break, at least half-true right?

Now after all the disclaimers, we go to the real thing. Matador Night ran an article on top 10 sexiest girl in the world and our Asian cities listed are Tokyo (my favorite too!), Dubai (i thought they are famous for burning oil money only), Seoul, and Singapore. No shit, Asian got 4 out of 10 places.

Now, those of you feminists here who wanted to riddle my body with a machine gun please refrain from doing so because;

a) It's not me who do the ranking, it is Matador Night
b) They promise another ranking on sexiest male, maybe you are not interested but i will keep an eye on it, not that i am gay mind you
c) While you may think it is distasteful, the fact is there is a thing called freedom of speech

Back to our topic, now i personally think sexy is only a point of view. Any girl can be sexy and even here in Malaysia, we had a lot of sexy joints too. So don't take it personally, it is just a list for fun.

But Singaporeans don't think so. There is a huge discussion on this in Asianone.com where it first published a writing on this and its forum is filled with, well, battle of the sexes. Some are sensible while others consist of jealous comments, low blows, well, i think you know what i mean.

***Note : you can go straight down to the purple color words below if you are not interested with the comments on the article..below there is my personal view**************

While they should be discussing of their sexy ladies, they are instead discussing of how "cheap" the Singaporean ladies are, saying that they will sleep around as long as it is with the ang moh (whites). Now that really sounds familiar. Wasn't that loser i am hearing whining?

but then, from here the hit goes to National University of Singapore (NUS). It was said that the NUS girls are so cheap they go around for fun.

Heck, what the hell is cheap then? If these girls would like to sleep around, what the hell that gonna do with you? If you can sleep around and have fun, i think it should go both way. But those guys would be saying.....no more nice, untouched girls for me now..huhuhu....Hey, no one complain when you get a mail ordered bride right? If you don't sleep around, i don't think you can't find someone of the same. just try harder, dude..Anyway the ridicule continue with the assertion that this people who sleep around free are "cheaper" than those prostitutes who are charging money.

Maybe these Singaporean guys are thinking, "walau, i have to pay for those China-dolls but those ang mohs just come in and get the girls for free. Come from NUS sumore. Dun play-play ah.."

Aiyo....why are you people getting so worked-up over the girls whom you are not considering for marriage anyway?

And finally, the moment i am waiting came. The ladies strike back!!!First by giving totally unrelated thing about oral sex then when a guy talk about flat-chested-ness, another lady (i think) fired him back with machine gun about what he would think about his daugther being dump for having a flat chest (inherited from that man and another Singaporean girl). That is a bit beside the point really. And another guy fired back saying that gives more reason for Singaporean men finding ladies with curvier bodies to ensure that do not happen.

And of course, all the complain of men being boring and all were brought up. And finally, penis size is brought up. Wth the girls declaring size does matter, they brought the fight to a all new (low) height. But then men responded with, yes, it does, that's why we complain of your boobs.

Then there are talks about black men and their dick (yupe, about the size and mannerism on bed though trigged by a lady who told of her personal experience). And finally, someone with some sense talk about mistakes men made on the bed. I think this make sense so i give you the link there. haha..

So this discussion that lasted 5 months and still counting only have one sensible comment. Holy shit.

Now let's move away from those netizens' views and let's talk about my view. First of all, the survey is not something to be taken seriously. Just a marketing shit so why bother?

Now, i believe antwhere in this world there are people who will sleep around and there are those who won't. There are different people with different requirement and there bound to be someone suits you. If he/she haven't arrive, just wait. And if you don't like those who slept around, no one force you with a gun right?

Maybe i shall relate a story i heard sometime ago. This lady always frequent bars but when she saw the guys there, she would tell herself, these guys are not gor marriage. But as time goes on, and she is getting restless, suddenly she had a realisation. These guys are the only ones she knew.

Now that is holy shit.

For the guys and girls, again, there is a freedom of choice. Play by all means and keep finding, for those who are still finding.

And for the record, in the sexiest men list, Kuala Lumpur guys are in top ten. More on that in my next post.

What Would You Do?

What would you do if your partner, be it female or male, lose interest in sex?

Now that is some question.

i knew not, but it seems bad. Not that about extremely horny or things like that. Rather, sex is a normal need in adult life. And not having it, seems weird, to say at least, when you are sharing a room and all other things like communication, children and stuffs like that are normal (clarification : i am not married with chilld. In fact, i am very young. hehehe).

pardon me if this post is badly written, for i now having insomnia and its 5.30am local time.

now back to no interest in sex, in this blog i do not seek to explain and analyze thing in a scholarly or scientifically (that is for my other blog) but rather, as i found myself miraculously can't fall asleep, try to imagine how life would be to sleep with a person you love and yet no sex because the other partner lose interest in it.

and all i can think of - how pity.

my symphaty goes to them.

will myself suffer the same fate? Hope not, i love sex. don't get me wrong. loving to have sex is normal. if you are not, now that is something to ponder upon.

weird weird weird

pity pity pity

when i go class tomorrow morning, god bless me.

argh...why can't i sleep but instead think of people who can't have sex?

must be some story someone told me.

bugger.