Thursday, January 1, 2009

Why Some do not Acknowledge They had a Grilfriend/Boyfriend

It always leaves a bad taste, when your loved one does not acknowledge you in front of others. He/she refer you as only friend in front of his other friends etc. And you had no choice but to play on.

Just why some are so reluctant to do so, eventhough unlike artiste, their life do not depend on their denial?

The reason may be this - they just not sure of it.

You see, this may due lack of confidence in the relationship, which they wished not many knew of it, thinking of the day they might breakup. Sad but true. In fact, most relationship start this way.

But what if when a relationship had been on sometime? Again the same reason. But in the more cruel way. They might look down on that other half.

They are afraid to bring up this person because they believe they deserved better, either better looking, richer, etc etc. They might want to fish for another while hooking up with this person. They want to preserve their "single" status as long as possible so that they do not miss out any chances. Believe me, once they found a better one, they will be gone faster than you say "wait".

Just what for going out with this type of people?

2 comments:

Vi Vio Violet~ said...

Sometimes ppl doesnt wan their relation 2 b put in a limelight, sometimes d couple r in a situation tat they themselves dun even sure whether they r in a relation, sometimes ppl feel tat its enuf tat im wif tis guy n y on earth tat i've 2 explain n tell d world bout tat...there r juz so much reason behind dear..dun b tat judgmental,k??

Cindy said...

vio, y so mad?